Thank goodness for sensible women. Kathryn Jean Lopez’ response to all this is:
There's no conflict. If you want to assume humans have no reason and can't be encouraged to exercise sexual discipline for the sake of self-respect, if nothing else — which I do not — there is another a word that avoids the "abort or be a single-mother" distraction equation: adoption.
That's not always an easy solution. But it actually is one that avoids ending a human life.